About Julia
Before we go any further, there are a few things you should know about me
Let’s start with what I’m not.
I’m not your customary companion nor am I your typical Domme. If the comfort of tradition is what you seek, search elsewhere. There’s nothing traditional about me, sweets. Best described as a kinky sensualist, I’m a flavor best suited for those with adventurous palates and curious hearts. I’m not here just to show you a good time, I’m here to show you what you’ve been missing.
What I am is boundless, but I’ll try to be concise.
I’m an artist, aesthete, kinky bisexual woman, an erotic adventurer. Valedictorian of my high school, I left a trail of discarded expectations in my wake as I set out to pursue a degree in the performing arts. It was there that I discovered my passion for creating transformative experiences, a preference for gin, and an obsession with the taboo (more on that later). Upon graduating, I heeded the siren call of that devilish chanteuse, New York City, where I set about constructing a life for myself governed by beauty, evolution, pleasure, and doing exactly as I please. And so I live. Wardrobe Stylist by day, Erotic Guide by night. Never a dull moment in the city that never sleeps: exactly the way I want it.
So why this path?
Though living a life unbound by convention does seem to be a motivating factor in my life, it’s hardly the whole story. I can’t stand a rebel without a cause; I may be a rebel, but I have reasons.
№ 1: Contradictions
I’m fascinated with the honesty contained within them. I am full of them, as are you. I love the art of dressing as much as I love the nude form. I delight the abrasive kick of an extra dirty gin martini and the sweet delicacy of a Kouign-amann. I relish a scenic meandering train ride, but I like to get straight to the point. Our inner landscapes are rich with contradiction and I take great pleasure in the intimacy of acting as your cartographer.
№ 2: My aforementioned obsession with the taboo
Why do we want what we’re told we shouldn’t? And why does the thought of transgression make us hot and slick with desire? It’s a question that’s at the heart of my work as a kink practitioner and one that ensures I never tire of exploring the forbidden.
№ 3: I believe in the transformative power of eroticism
Not eroticism in the conventional definition of sex, but as Esther Perel defines it: “Eroticism is an elixir of vibrancy, curiosity, and spontaneity that makes us feel alive.” I believe that to be in contact with erotic desires is essential to being fully awake in our lives. I’m passionate about guiding people through an exploration of their desires with skill and finesse.
